I read once to not explain about yourself by what you do, or where you live but by offering the non-obvious, the weird, the sub-surface.

• i love pattern-finding. In data and people alike
• data cleaning + spreadsheets is fun + soothing
• experience curation is a way I show love
• enneagram 7, exhaustingly so
• my Meyers Briggs [ENTP] is debater which means I debate with myself, too. I can convince myself and unconvince myself just the same
• i present spontaneous but have difficulty giving up control. the detail in which I plan spontaneous events show this to be true
• a recovering people pleaser learning to undo the constant conquer of external validation. even if I don’t like you I want you to like me
• i struggle with balance. My toxic narrative here is that balance is boring, unsuccessful
• i have terribly high expectations, of myself and everyone else
• in mostly any situation I have considered about 400 rich alternatives of how it can go. sometimes this results in deep joy + magic from the result of runaway imagination – sometimes I make myself cry from completely made up universes
• i over-assign meaning as a sport